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Divorce mediation

Divorce mediation is spouses discussing and deciding the terms of their divorce with help from a mediator. Here are three important things to know about divorce mediation:

  1. Spouses discuss divorce topics together, during one or more meetings with their mediator.
  2. Spouses are the decision makers in divorce mediation, not lawyers or judges.
  3. The mediator is impartial, never taking sides for or against either spouse.

In my office, about 9 in 10 couples who try mediation reach agreement on all important divorce matters. In Pennsylvania, spouses who reach an agreement in mediation can divorce without setting foot in court.

Cost of divorce mediation in Pennsylvania

Timeline for a mediation divorce in Pennsylvania

How does divorce mediation work?

In a mediation divorce, spouses have two important jobs:

  1. Discussing terms of divorce. Spouses must be willing to talk to each other during meetings with their divorce mediator. Some divorce topics may be hard to discuss, but their mediator will help.
  2. Deciding terms of divorce. Spouses are the decision makers in divorce mediation. They should expect to make decisions for themselves and their family.

Steps in a Pennsylvania mediation divorce

Three tips for a more peaceful divorce mediation

Some divorcing couples come to mediation with many terms of agreement already worked out. Others come to mediation without any idea of where to start. Either way is fine. They can count on their divorce mediator to help them divorce.

Divorce mediator

A divorce mediator is a person who helps spouses divorce peacefully, without fighting in court. A divorce mediator:

Dann Johns, Divorce Mediator and Attorney
Dann Johns,
Divorce Mediator & Attorney

A divorce mediator works to make divorce as peaceful as possible. The calm and patient presence of a divorce mediator helps spouses discuss and decide important, even difficult, issues together.

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Spouses and divorcing parents may not know all the issues they must decide when divorcing. An experienced divorce mediator makes sure they discuss all important:

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Divorcing spouses need information to help them make informed decisions. A mediator can offer information to both spouses during divorce mediation sessions. For example, a divorce mediator may share information about ways to:

Divorce Mediator Dann Johns
Dann Johns,
Divorce Mediator & Attorney

A licensed attorney since 1988, I left the courtroom behind in 2012. Now I share my knowledge of Pennsylvania divorce law with spouses who want to divorce without setting foot in court.

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For divorcing moms and dads, a mediator can offer information about how to:

Divorce mediation benefits for parents

Always, a divorce mediator remains impartial which means:

Spouses find it easier to reach a divorce agreement when they know their mediator is a completely neutral helper.

Benefits of divorce mediation

Does each spouse need their own lawyer for divorce mediation?

Divorce mediation for you and your spouse

Consider sharing this website with your spouse. If both of you are interested in a mediation divorce, the next step is to schedule a free consultation about divorce mediation.

To learn more about divorce mediation, visit the site map (helpful summary of each page of this website) or search by topic using the navigation menu.

I wish you and your spouse much peace and well-being!

Dann Johns
Divorce Mediator & Attorney

Content updated April 2, 2023

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Dann Johns is licensed to practice law in Pennsylvania. Practice limited to divorce mediation cases.